It's especially hard to give when you are broke and or struggling financially. BUT It isn't always about money. Giving a helping hand can be just as valuable to the receiving party. Sharing a meal and giving your time to listen and encourage - are all ways we can give to others.
Paying it forward is always a blessing. You may not be able to 'pay back' those that have helped you, but you can pay it forward when you are given the opportunity. Again, it isn't always about money.
A few years ago, I needed an attorney for a court case. I was able to pay my down payment in cash but wasn't able to pay off the balance. Instead, I was given a job to do the landscaping at the law firm. Working off the balance. Just so you know, I had an awesome attorney.
When you lend someone a few bucks to help them along, don't expect to be repaid. If you do get paid back, great, if not - don't let a few bucks destroy a good relationship. Think of it as a gift when you're giving it and you won't have that 'ripped off' feeling as time passes.
Don't always expect to get paid for work that you do helping a friend or neighbor. Again, consider it 'gifting your time'.
You will find yourself a whole lot happier if you are not tallying debts, especially over the little things. Consider it charity and give with a happy heart.
Karma is one of God's tools in this life.
And what you give will come back to you, perhaps in other ways.
Be a cheerful giver and you will have a richer life.
Blessed by God
Life's a blessing @ the Bright Side of the Barn
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