Blessed and Feeling Satisfied

I enjoy working off of "To Do" lists. You get a sense of accomplishment as you check off what's done. It helps to prioritize, organize and stay on track of what needs done. You can coordinate what needs money to be accomplished and what just needs time. What might need help and what you can do on your own. You can set aside funds knowing they have a purpose. Some things can get done in just a few minutes other things take days and sometimes, it takes a few months to be able to complete a task.

I recently spend a day with a friend whom I had invited to brunch. She asked if I could help with a couple things at her house afterwards. We enjoyed a wonderful meal together then headed over to her place. The list consisted of 5 things. A couple were 30 second jobs, one was a bit of a challenge and yet another almost didn't need to be done. They were things she couldn't do alone and needed an extra set of hands. I enjoy helping. Much like myself she would get a bit excited as she scratched each item off of the list. Expressing the relief to know these things are done! 

Currently I had been putting together a rather large list, subdivided into sections - all to be accomplished once the 'big check' arrived. Always good to have a plan and direct money where it needs to be. Once the needed priorities are taken care of, there is a bit of room for the 'would be nice to have' items and finally once everything else is scratched off there is money left to reward myself. It was 27 months waiting for the approval and another 6 weeks waiting for the money to arrive. It took about 2 weeks to pay off bills and purchase the needs and make the appointments that have been on hold. 

It feels pretty good tonight to be able to file the list away as completed and accomplished. Now all I have is a list of deliveries to keep track of . The needs and the wants all fulfilled and the savings still has a bit of feed to keep the moths away. 

Being able to relax financially, is such a wonderful feeling. Being able to plan enjoyable things like a vacation is always a welcome reward from work. Knowing that when the phone rings it won't be a bill collector has been a long awaited relief. 

For the first time in life, I'm completely out of debt and able to pay it forward. My cars have been to the shop and are in top running order. My fur babies have all had their vet appointments and up to date on all their shots and other medical works. Things needed and things wanted are all scratched off the list. 

I can't help but be grateful to God for carrying me through the darkness the last couple years have been. There were days it felt like it was never going to end. Some days felt like tomorrow was a mile away on foot. Staying faithful and enduring the hard times has blessed me forward with so many miracles and blessings. I honestly can't keep up. God has done so much over the course of my life.

Looking back over the last couple of years and thinking about where life was and where it is, is such a blessing in itself. Getting closer to God and learning, It's nice to not have to worry about 'self' and 'how am I going to make it'. When you focus on how can I help someone else, you find your own needs tend to fall into place.  God has got your back! 

Make a list and follow your path. The secret to success is to put God at the top of the list and be thankful for all He's done for you, even when you don't see it and are struggling. He will turn the struggles into satisfaction and over whelming success. 

Make a list and keep God first! 

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You can't outgive God

 When I was very young, I advanced in school to be the youngest person in my grade. This brought about challenges of its own. 'Bullying' they call it now, then you were told you were being too sensitive or a crybaby, if you 'couldn't handle it'.  

 One. day I had it pretty rough and when I got home, I expressed that I wanted to go back 'to where I belonged' - I didn't want to be 'smart' anymore. My mother sat me down and told me something that has stuck with me throughout my life. 

 Not everything that happens to you, is about you. Sometimes its not because you did something wrong ~ or right. Sometimes, it happens to you because someone else is struggling and needs to see how to get through it. By watching you, it lights a path for them. When things go wrong it doesn't always mean God is punishing us. Sometimes it's God teaching us and building our strength spiritually. 

 Too often when things go bad, people 'blame God' and when things are good, they pat themselves on the back. It amazes me how many people don't acknowledge or 'believe' in God, yet when disasters happen or it's an emergency ~ they call out to God and ask for prayers. When the situation passes, they go back to 'living' their lives without God. 

God's not a genie; you can't just rub the bottle and make a wish. 

God is a spirit and you have to build a relationship with Him, through His son Jesus. 

 The last few years have been challenging. More often than not, my life goes through trials of 'fire'. Struggling to make ends meet has been a regular occurrence, yet we have gotten through to brighter days. Something I've said often when the path was dark and there was no obvious solution was to say ~ God knows my heart and God knows the need. Answers would come and something would happen to resolve the problem.

 God knows my heart. Regardless of what people think, say or do ~ they don't know the real me and they don't know my heart. I have always been more concerned with what God thinks of me, over what people say about me. 

 People have commented that I must have 'pissed God off' to be going through some of the things that happened. I personally think it was the devil 'pissed' because he couldn't turn my heart away from God. I always think of Job when I'm going through hard times. Job's story is one to hold on too. Reflect on and he was an amazing example to follow. 

 It's been just a few months over a year now since I sat alone in my truck with my cats and dog - freezing in temperatures 27 degrees and lower. Lost everything - house, 'stuff' income - friends, family.. And then God brought some of the family and other people into my life that gave me a lift up and blessed my life tremendously. 

 I am home now, and everything I have lost has been replaced with better. I wake up every day grateful to be alive, in a warm house with plenty of food. I no longer have financial struggles. My income is secure for the rest of my life. Even when I have 'down' days. With my health, that is a regular occurrence as well. 

 I can't keep up with the blessings and miracles that have been happening every day! I try my best to pay back those that have helped and every time God does something to bless my life even more. 

 The only thing left is for my family to be healed. I pray every day for those that are lost. I pray for hearts to heal. Even that has had improvements. Some family members that had their own struggles have had some victories as well. You might say we're on 'top of the world' in some ways. Growing stronger together. 

 Just goes to show you, You can't outgive God. 

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Being a Cheerful Giver

 It's especially hard to give when you are broke and or struggling financially. BUT It isn't always about money. Giving a helping hand can be just as valuable to the receiving party. Sharing a meal and giving your time to listen and encourage - are all ways we can give to others.

 Paying it forward is always a blessing. You may not be able to 'pay back' those that have helped you, but you can pay it forward when you are given the opportunity. Again, it isn't always about money. 

A few years ago, I needed an attorney for a court case. I was able to pay my down payment in cash but wasn't able to pay off the balance. Instead, I was given a job to do the landscaping at the law firm. Working off the balance. Just so you know, I had an awesome attorney. 

When you lend someone a few bucks to help them along, don't expect to be repaid. If you do get paid back, great, if not - don't let a few bucks destroy a good relationship. Think of it as a gift when you're giving it and you won't have that 'ripped off' feeling as time passes. 

Don't always expect to get paid for work that you do helping a friend or neighbor. Again, consider it 'gifting your time'. 

You will find yourself a whole lot happier if you are not tallying debts, especially over the little things. Consider it charity and give with a happy heart. 

Karma is one of God's tools in this life. 

And what you give will come back to you, perhaps in other ways. 

Be a cheerful giver and you will have a richer life. 

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Welcome to the Family Charlie

 

The newest member of the family, meet Charlie. Born November 7th, Adopted March 12th. Chanelle finally has her own puppy. The shelter said he was part Chihuahua. We were able to see his mom, he's as big as she is. And she only had 4 puppies, so I'm guessing a bigger dog got to her. Poor thing. We will do a DNA test later on and see what breeds he is. For now - he's just a puppy we love. 

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Peaceful

 

The following clip is found on Google ~

search for peace is being alone

Being alone offers a profound sense of peace, serving as a restorative escape from the world's demands rather than a state of loneliness. This intentional solitude allows for mental clarity, self-reflection, and creative, uninterrupted time to recharge. It is a, "sacred pause" where one can truly be themselves. 

Restoration & Creativity: It provides a necessary break to recharge, which can boost creativity and improve overall mental health.

Self-Discovery: Solitude fosters self-awareness and helps you understand your own feelings, hopes, and ideas without outside influence.
Intention over Isolation: It is not about being lonely, but about choosing a quiet, peaceful, and productive environment for yourself.
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The Problem with Social Security

 

Every time you call the number for Social Security, you get a different person. Half of them don't speak English clear enough to understand. A third of the time the connection becomes static and you can't hear or they can't hear you. Not to mention it doesn't matter what time of day or what day of the week or what part of the month, you sit on hold for an hour to an hour and a half. Going in for an appointment is usually scheduled weeks out. Walk ins wait all day and hope to be seen. 

I believe they should have a specific representative for each person. And there should be an email for the representative. So much could be done more efficiently and in a timely manner. 

It took 27 months to get approved and now so far it's been 6 weeks waiting for back pay. First, they say 3-5 days, then it's 5-7 days then 10 days. On the last call we finally got an agent that went above and beyond and consulted with a technical advisor to help him write up a report to hopefully fix the problem whatever it happens to be. Only set back on that is now it's a 20 day wait.!!

My dad used to say the right hand doesn't know what the left hand is doing and boy does it feel like it now. 

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Understanding Infusions

I had to start having infusion treatments last month. The side effects were brutal. I'm just now getting back to 'normal' as far as being able to function. The lack of energy and ability on top of the pain. It didn't help I caught a head cold from being around the hospital. (sick people sharing sickness). 

Not to mention the stresses regarding life, my health and just everything in general. If it isn't one thing it's another taking a toll on oneself and the mental well being. 

God gives us opportunity to learn and to grow through trials in life. The struggles make us stronger. We are not promised an easy road in this life, we are promised He will show us a way through. Hard times Makes our faith stronger. 

We tend to turn to God more-so when things are going wrong, or becoming a challenge. Perhaps that is why He allows us to endure such trials. 

Patience is learned when we have to 'wait'. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason and everything is in God's time. Not ours. His plan is perfect whether we can see it or not. This life is a growing time, a place to learn. Eternity has so much more to offer to those who find themselves in the book of life. 

I tend to be more quiet and keep to myself when I'm going through such trials. Focus on my Bible studies, prayer and the daily duties of life. 

I wake up every day grateful to have yet another day. Knowing, there isn't going to be a whole lot more of them. Making sure all the loose ends are taken care of. Things completed. Being able to enjoy what's left of life. We can go at any time. AS we get older we know the time is getting shorter. You start looking at life differently. Especially when those you have known for so much of your life start passing away. 

I've added a bit of information found on 'google' regarding infusions and the variety of reasons folks have them. Knowledge is power they say. Being informed helps us with understanding. 

 Infusion therapy is also used to manage osteoporosis, where medications administered infrequently (e.g., once or twice a year) can slow bone loss. These treatments, which may be bisphosphonates or other bone-modifying agents, are given intravenously to ensure maximum absorption and potency in the body. This controlled delivery ensures the medication reaches the bone tissue effectively to promote skeletal strength and reduce fracture risk.

Non-chemotherapy infusion therapy is used for complex, long-term conditions that require highly potent or targeted medications. Autoimmune diseases represent one of the primary areas of application, where the body’s immune system mistakenly attacks its own tissues. For conditions like Rheumatoid Arthritis, Crohn’s Disease, and Multiple Sclerosis, infused biologics work by blocking inflammatory proteins, such as specific cytokines or tumor necrosis factors, to reduce inflammation and prevent disease progression.

Non-chemotherapy infusions are treatments that bypass the digestive tract without using drugs designed to indiscriminately kill rapidly dividing cells, which is the hallmark of traditional chemotherapy. These non-cytotoxic agents function by disrupting specific molecular pathways or cell-to-cell communication signals involved in a disease process. Instead of causing widespread cellular damage, this approach aims for precision, resulting in a more focused therapeutic effect with fewer systemic side effects.

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The Passing of Friends

 

It's been a rough holiday season in some ways. Many of the friends I spend time with on a daily basis in years passed, have now passed away. From Thanksgiving to Just after the New Year. What was my best friend for many years, to the Best man at my wedding. Siblings are all gone but one, parents passed years ago. 

There's a loneliness that overtakes you as you say good bye to so many of the people that made up the circle of your life. Soon I will be the last one standing, my brother is fading fast. Old friends have been replaced with new friends, some as old as I am, some older. We won't be around much longer either. 

The circle of life.  The memories. I don't know why people would rather remember the bad moments when there were actually many good times to cherish. I was blessed with some amazing children; it's been a privilege to watch them grow into the people they have become. To see my grandchildren grow up and start families of their own. Great grandchildren, something not many get to appreciate.  

There has been a lot of 'bad' things happen, but the good times outweigh and shine bright. So many wonderful memories. Life is such a gift. Appreciate every day you get to wake up. Cherish the moments. Before you know it, your old! Babies are grown and your body starts slowing down. 

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Resolutions

 How many people actually hold true to the "New Year's Resolutions" that they make?  

"I'm gonna quit smoking" ~ "I'm going to lose weight" ~ "I'm going to save money".

Goals are good. Don't get me wrong. Having something to strive for is always a good thing. Being able to actually accomplish it, is even better. Don't make your goals out of reach, to high to achieve. 

Break it down into simpler steps. Example ~ I'm going to smoke 1 less cigarette a day, after a week, smoke 1 less and eventually you won't be smoking. 

Lists work better for some {Like myself}. Being able to check things off as they are accomplished. After 5 things are completed, start the list over again - it will have fewer items on it, until you think of more things that need to be added. 

Add some fun to your list, don't make it all work and complicated. Add some personal growth, physically, mentally, spiritually. Get those 'to do's' on there too. The more you can check off your list, the more motivated you are to get more done, check off more, accomplish more. 

Be flexible. Don't expect to get it done in a certain amount of time. Allow yourself to 'take days off' from working on it. Make room for those exceptions that come up. {You were sick and missed a couple days off work} Make sure you give yourself a couple extra days on that project. 

This is the year to become one step closer to where you want to be.  

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January 1st

 

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2026