Narcist people like spin the tale as if they are totally innocent and you are the one who's a 'bitch'. They don't take responsibility for their own actions, they blame 'the other guy'. Then they try to make you feel as if it was your fault because of your reaction to the situation. Imagine being homeless time and time again because of someone else's behavior and bad choices. Then you finally catch a break, and a friend offers you a new house with the lowest rent you could possibly pay.
The only rule ~ DON'T SMOKE IN THE HOUSE ~.
Now imagine the person that moves in with you, smokes in the house. Sneaking around behind your back.
Not only are they disrespecting you, but they are also disrespecting your friend and jeopardizing your ability to live there too.
What do you do?
You kick them out!
Let them tell everyone it's 'YOU' that's the problem. You know it's their own fault for breaking the one and only rule to the house. Don't let them cause you to get kicked out. Don't let them destroy the friendship you have with the people that helped get you into the house in the first place.
They need to figure it out on their own. Don't expect them to stop blaming you, that will never happen. They have spent years turning everyone against you, blaming you. Causing people to dislike you, because of their lies. All When it's been their own behavior that has caused them their problems.
Respect yourself and stand up for yourself and your principles. Don't end up homeless again because of some disrespectful fool. If people knew the truth, they would understand. Some people don't care what the truth is, they just want to hate no matter who is at fault.
Let the haters hate. Love yourself.
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